Safety

Safety I’m noticing safety is a big block for intimacy on all sides so I’m offering some insights I’ve been gifted in my experiences having explored safety for myself and in my intimate relatings. Principle 1) A man needs to find his own safety...

For the love of of Love — Leave Social Media!

Drop facebook, instagram, etc, — these all have you chasing for validation, recognition and/or being seen with the insidious manipulative intent of keeping you imprisoned in the electronic prison of FANTASY where you will never arrive to anything but confusion...

Learn to give what was never given to you

As you begin to show up in your life more, you might be faced with different challenges of having to show up in ways that you didn’t expect to and be asked to give what you never received. Doing this is one of the underlying cornerstones of unconditional love...

A Man’s Love

As a man, there are a couple of basic things that I strive to deliver to my community and that I also recognize as a commonality in all men of intelligence who I have learned from. 1) Men of intelligence maintain a pristine environment so everything can be seen...

The Gift of Grief

One of the most ecstatic of feelings that moves us is Grief. When we lose a friend, a lover, a parent, our pet, our home — you name it — Life is checkmating us into a place of deep feeling, inspiration and possibility to pause in our own lives, feel and...

The HUG

As part of my service to the community, if any woman requests a hug from me I will gladly show up for as long as she feels to receive. What does this really mean? This can sound stupid, simple, and possibly manipulative….its not. Read on.. Considering all the...

Ejaculation is not Relaxation

In reflecting back upon my past pornography addiction, I see a clear motivation of me chasing relaxation through ejaculation. When not making babies, my experience is that using ejaculation to relax never worked and never will work and in fact, ejaculation is the...